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How to keep warm with 3 levels of layering…

 This day was deceptively cold.  It was clear and sunny, but in the 30’s.  Not so cold that we needed our ginormous coats and hats, but cold enough for layers…Blog Leather Jacket Gap Jean Shirt StyleMint DL1961 Emma Riker Cafe Noire Booties-1 Blog Leather Jacket Gap Jean Shirt StyleMint DL1961 Emma Riker Cafe Noire Booties-2 Blog Leather Jacket Gap Jean Shirt StyleMint DL1961 Emma Riker Cafe Noire Booties-3 Blog Leather Jacket Gap Jean Shirt StyleMint DL1961 Emma Riker Cafe Noire Booties-4 Blog Leather Jacket Gap Jean Shirt StyleMint DL1961 Emma Riker Cafe Noire Booties-5 Blog Leather Jacket Gap Jean Shirt StyleMint DL1961 Emma Riker Cafe Noire Booties-6 hahaha, I love that she just busts a move out of nowhere 🙂Blog Leather Jacket Gap Jean Shirt StyleMint DL1961 Emma Riker Cafe Noire Booties-7Blog Faux Fur Vest DL1961 Chloe Whiteley-1Can you tell it was WINDY?Blog Faux Fur Vest DL1961 Chloe Whiteley-2Blog Faux Fur Vest DL1961 Chloe Whiteley-3Blog Faux Fur Vest DL1961 Chloe Whiteley-4Blog Faux Fur Vest DL1961 Chloe Whiteley-5Blog Faux Fur Vest DL1961 Chloe Whiteley-6Blog Faux Fur Vest DL1961 Chloe Whiteley-7Blog Faux Fur Vest DL1961 Chloe Whiteley-8On me…

Leather Jacket- Bought in Italy 20+ years ago
Denim Shirt- Gap (thrifted, similar here)
Striped Top- StyleMint
Jeans- DL1961 “Emma” in Riker (ebay score!)
Boots- Cafe Noire (thrifted, but similar here)
On Maya…
Vest- Koala Kids (thrifted, but similar here)
Sweater- (thrifted, but similar here)
Denim Shirt- Gap (thrifted, but similar here)
Boots- Cherokee (thrifted, but similar here)
Keeping it Real…
This was a very quick outting!  I didn’t think it was that cold, but then the sun went down very quickly and we were in the shade.  As long as I was hugging Maya or she was jumping/dancing all was well.
This is Maya’s face right before she said “Mom, it’s cold.  I want to go home…”  And so we did!  Seriously…those fingers?!  I love them!blog outtake
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Classics never go out of style… Leather Jackets + Converse

 Ok, so I did it again.  I dressed us alike.  I honestly didn’t mean to, but then it just happened.  Oh well.

Just wait for it…. 🙂1 blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-7 Blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-2 Blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-41 blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-11 Blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-7 Blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-8 Blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-9 Blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-10 Blog Doma Leather Jacket StyleMint tee DL1961 Emma Denver Black Converse-11You know, because who needs a jacket it the winter???  Obviously, not Maya…blog purple faux leather Jacket Hanna Andersson Checked blouse DL1961 Harper Pataky Black Toddler Converse-1And then I managed to wrestle it back on her! blog purple faux leather Jacket Hanna Andersson Checked blouse DL1961 Harper Pataky Black Toddler Converse-2 blog purple faux leather Jacket Hanna Andersson Checked blouse DL1961 Harper Pataky Black Toddler Converse-3 blog purple faux leather Jacket Hanna Andersson Checked blouse DL1961 Harper Pataky Black Toddler Converse-4 blog purple faux leather Jacket Hanna Andersson Checked blouse DL1961 Harper Pataky Black Toddler Converse-5 blog purple faux leather Jacket Hanna Andersson Checked blouse DL1961 Harper Pataky Black Toddler Converse-6On me…

Jacket- Doma (old, but similar here and less expensive here)
Top- StyleMint (similar here)
Shoes- Converse (thrifted)
On Maya…
Jacket- H&M (last year, but similar here)
Top- Hanna Andersson (thrifted)
Jeans- DL1961 “Harper” (C/O)
Shoes- Converse (thrifted)
Keeping it Real…
This was cut a little short because I didn’t realize HOW MUDDY it was going to be at the park.  Maya had said she wanted to try and fly her little butterfly kite, but once we got there all she saw was MUD!!!  And…have you ever tried to distract a toddler from mud??  Thankfully I had a full package of wet wipes with me 😉
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

One of my favorite posts…Because I can’t think of a title…and it is :)

 I envy anyone who has a way with words.  Someone that pulls you in with their story.  One that can make you feel as if you were there by the way they describe what happened to them.  Witty titles.  Heart wrenching stories that pull you in, and make you ache from what you read or make you laugh out loud.  Or…just a recounting of their day (good or bad) that makes you think of a day you similarly had that makes you connect to them.

I follow people’s blogs or on Instagram that have this gift, because they inspire me and leave me in awe, but I will never be that person.  I’ve never had that special way with words.  I’ve always used another medium to express myself.  Right now…it’s pictures.  And, honestly, I feel blessed to be able to do that for other people, and honestly…for myself.

I’ve never been good at story telling.  I always forget 75% of what I’m trying to tell.  I’d never be able to accurately recount to Maya all the fun we had in her childhood, but through this blog…I can.  And I am forever grateful for that.  Zero followers or a bunch of followers.  It doesn’t really matter.  The end result is that I can show her this later and show her how much fun we had and how much I love her.  Because by the time she actually reads this, she will “hate me” for telling her she can’t wear this or that I’m sure haha :{

I’m sure it isn’t a secret that I don’t really feel comfortable in dresses.  I love them, buy them, but never wear them.  One of the pages I follow on Instagram is CoastToCoastCentral.  Not only do they have great fashion posts and challenges, but they are very involved in raising awareness around sex trafficking.  It literally makes my shudder to think about this being a reality, but is sadly it very much is.  They recently partnered with Dressember in order to raise awareness of human trafficking.  Honestly, I can’t wear a dress for the entire month (ugh, maybe I could, but…this year, I will try to commit to wearing them MORE! Baby steps).

Sooo, day 1 (or, in reality Day 8 by the time I post this)!  Honestly, this dress would be indecent on a 40 year old mom (who’s 5′ 8″!), so I paired it with some skinny jeans and boots and I was happy as a clam!  Extra bonus?  Totally hides all the holiday indulging-WIN!!

Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-1 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-2 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-3 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-4 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-5And then the sun went away… In case you were wondering 😉Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-6OMG, loooove that I captured this!!  Usually, I only capture the after math (ginormous hug), but this is what leads up to it, which…is almost just as good 😉 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-7Ok, this is better 🙂 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-8 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-9“Maya, can you stand like a flamingo?” haha.  Because she’s obsessed with flamingos, and there’s no way she would follow “Can you do what I’m doing?”  Hey…whatever works, because…how cute, right?? 😉 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-10 Blog Levis Jacket Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan Free People Sunbeams Dress DL1961 Emma Bloom Frye Harness Boots-11Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-1Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-2I cannot tell you how much I love it when she just busts a move!! 🙂Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-3Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-4Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-5Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-6Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-7OH MY GOSH, I have no words.  She is so freaking cute I can hardly stand it.  And no, I’m not biased (haha ;)) SHE IS!!!Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-8Looove this one too.Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-9Does anyone remember Geoffrey?  Yeah, he disappeared, and no other stick has lasted past the walk we are on.  This stick stayed on the path.  For those that don’t remember Geoffrey, he came with us everywhere for…a month?  Broke twice, had bandaides all over, and kept on going until…he was lost. 😦Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-10Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-11Blog HM Hat Old Navy faux fur vest cardigan Little Boogaweezin DL1961 Chloe Rafaeli Pink Checked Vans-12On me…

Jacket- Levi’s (thrifted)
Sweater- Inhabit (ebay, LOVING this one here)
On Maya…
Hat- (thrifted, but similar here)
Sweater- (thrifted, but similar here)
Vest- Old Navy (thrifted, but similar here)
Top- Little Boogaweezin (sold out, but the SS15 is preview is AMAZING!)
Shoes- Vans (thrifted, but similar here)
Keeping it Real…
Ok, this first one…hahaha.  I was trying to show the movement of the dress and in my mind I wanted a graceful twirl.  What I got instead! HA-NOT GRACEFUL!  Hey…you try twirling for 10 seconds and have it time it just right 😉  Totally cracked me up when I saw it though!!  I look like a tween line dancing (no offense to line dancers!!)blog outtake-And, this next one wouldn’t be an outtake if there wasn’t a guy walking his dog (I probably could have removed him in photoshop), and the voluminous dress didn’t look soooo unflattering when I bent over :{  But…it happens, and I still love it, so it’s an outtake! 🙂
blog outtake-1
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Leather + Coated Denim…again :)

 So, in my quest to wear things that I love but that I wasn’t wearing, I’m now on repeat haha.  Hey, there are worse things.  Plus, these coated denim are basically like spanx, so you’re lucky you don’t see these on me every single day.  Although, these pictures were taken a few weeks ago before the holiday binging, so they might not even fit me right now ;}Blog Doma Leather Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan J Brand Coated Skinny Leopard Vans-1 Blog Doma Leather Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan J Brand Coated Skinny Leopard Vans-2 Blog Doma Leather Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan J Brand Coated Skinny Leopard Vans-3 Blog Doma Leather Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan J Brand Coated Skinny Leopard Vans-4 Blog Doma Leather Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan J Brand Coated Skinny Leopard Vans-5 Blog Doma Leather Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan J Brand Coated Skinny Leopard Vans-6“C’mon Mom, this way!!” Blog Doma Leather Inhabit Cashmere Cardigan J Brand Coated Skinny Leopard Vans-7 Blog Gap Green Parka Old navy Star Dress HM Tights Zulily Link Navy Boots-1Love, love love these next three.  I couldn’t decide which one to post, so I’m posting them all…because I can 🙂 Blog Gap Green Parka Old navy Star Dress HM Tights Zulily Link Navy Boots-2 Blog Gap Green Parka Old navy Star Dress HM Tights Zulily Link Navy Boots-3 Blog Gap Green Parka Old navy Star Dress HM Tights Zulily Link Navy Boots-4 Blog Gap Green Parka Old navy Star Dress HM Tights Zulily Link Navy Boots-5 Blog Gap Green Parka Old navy Star Dress HM Tights Zulily Link Navy Boots-6 Blog Gap Green Parka Old navy Star Dress HM Tights Zulily Link Navy Boots-7On me…

Jacket- Doma (old, similar here)
Sweater- Inhabit (ebay, LOVING this one here)
Jeans- J Brand
Shoes- Vans (thrifted for $5!, similar here)
On Maya…
Jacket- Gap (thrifted, but similar here although, hers is a boys jacket :))
Dress- Old Navy (thrifted, but similar here)
Tights- H&M (similar here)
Boots- Zulily $9.99! (search Link)
Keeping it Real…
Maya had gotten up earlier than normal on this day.  She’s actually been pretty good about sleeping in until 7:00-7:30.  She goes to bed at 9:00.  Has since she was a baby.  I’ve tried to put her down earlier, because I always just assumed kids slept from 7-7 (like my brothers kids and friends kids did).  Hey, I would have been excited about 8-8 or 9-9.  BUT…I really l can’t complain, because she’s always been (and still is) and amazing napper.  That’s when I get all my work done, so I really wouldn’t trade that for anything!  Plus, it’s nice that she gets to stay up and see and hang out with all of us vs going to bed right after dinner.
ANYWHO…she got up around 6ish on this day (if I remember correctly), and we had time to kill before preschool.  So…we took pics.  Disregard the bags under both of our eyes, and the fact that I didn’t shower.  At this point, the fact that I haven’t showered isn’t really “keeping it real” anymore :}
Here she is eating an after breakfast/before preschool snack.Blog Outtake
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Layering up on a windy day…

 Truth be told, I wasn’t planning on taking pictures on this day.  It was super cold, raining, and windy, so I was all comfy and bundled up.  Honestly, I don’t even know if I took a shower, because the days all melted together last week… :}  But then…it cleared up for about an hour, so I thought…why not?Blog Theory Tootsie Tweed Sweater 7FAM Josefina Cropped Skinny Destroyed Boyfriend Jeans Frye Short Boot-1 Blog Theory Tootsie Tweed Sweater 7FAM Josefina Cropped Skinny Destroyed Boyfriend Jeans Frye Short Boot-2 Blog Theory Tootsie Tweed Sweater 7FAM Josefina Cropped Skinny Destroyed Boyfriend Jeans Frye Short Boot-3 Blog Theory Tootsie Tweed Sweater 7FAM Josefina Cropped Skinny Destroyed Boyfriend Jeans Frye Short Boot-4However…THIS picture, made this little impromptu shoot all worth while.  I’d much rather be given a beautiful leaf than a flower 🙂 Blog Theory Tootsie Tweed Sweater 7FAM Josefina Cropped Skinny Destroyed Boyfriend Jeans Frye Short Boot-5Maya had gotten her shirt all dirty at preschool, so I threw this dress on her that was in her “if she gets dirty” preschool bag haha.  Again…not planned, but real life, no? 🙂Blog Shampoo Toddler Moto Zulily Jacket Old Navy Denim Dress Gap Jeggings Zulily Link Buckle Rainboots-1 Blog Shampoo Toddler Moto Zulily Jacket Old Navy Denim Dress Gap Jeggings Zulily Link Buckle Rainboots-2 Blog Shampoo Toddler Moto Zulily Jacket Old Navy Denim Dress Gap Jeggings Zulily Link Buckle Rainboots-3 Blog Shampoo Toddler Moto Zulily Jacket Old Navy Denim Dress Gap Jeggings Zulily Link Buckle Rainboots-4Um, but these boots???  DYING!!  I didn’t even know they were rain boots when I bought them on Zulily during their close out sale!  When they came and I realized she could actually wear them over the next few months hahaha, IN LOVE!! 🙂Blog Shampoo Toddler Moto Zulily Jacket Old Navy Denim Dress Gap Jeggings Zulily Link Buckle Rainboots-5Oh, and can we talk about toddler girls that don’t want you to do their hair??  I have to do Maya’s hair while she’s on the potty watching the iPad hahaha.  Even then, more than half the time she rips out whatever I’ve done singing “Let it GOOOOO!”

Thanks Elsa :{ Blog Shampoo Toddler Moto Zulily Jacket Old Navy Denim Dress Gap Jeggings Zulily Link Buckle Rainboots-6 Messy hair, and oddball outfit and all.  She’s still pretty fricking cute, if you ask me 🙂Blog Shampoo Toddler Moto Zulily Jacket Old Navy Denim Dress Gap Jeggings Zulily Link Buckle Rainboots-7On me…

Tank- H&M
Jeans- 7FAM “Josefina Cropped” (similar here)
Boots- Frye (old, similar here)
On Maya…
Jacket- Zulily search Shampoo
Dress- Old Navy (thrifted)
Jeans- Gap (thrifted, but similar here)
Shoes- Zulily search Link Boots
Keeping it Real…
I actually took these a few weeks ago.  I still wasn’t sure I’d post them, but it has been SO freaking cold, and I’ve been so freaking busy with work, that…I’m digging back into the archives of unposted posts 😉  So…this is what Maya and I wear when we don’t plan on taking pics haha.
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Vintage Leather + Skinny Jeans + Booties…never fails.

 DL1961 was incredibly generous and sent Maya and me a few more pairs of jeans to try.  I thought all my other pairs were comfy, but these Florence jeans take it to another level!  The name is deceiving.  I assumed “Instasculpt” would be more rigid and binding, but they are sooo soft, yet flattering!  And if you’re thinking I don’t look any more sculpted, that’s all the overindulging I’ve been doing lately haha-whoops 😉Blog Vintage Leathe Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Florence Monroe Frye Lisa Booties-1 Blog Vintage Leathe Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Florence Monroe Frye Lisa Booties-2 Blog Vintage Leathe Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Florence Monroe Frye Lisa Booties-3blog Dit-Elle-Florence Monroe and Chloe MacPherson-4 The funniest thing about these next two images?  I was actually trying to get a shot of just me, and she kept wanting to run to me.  I even gave her a snack, which usually helps buy me a few minutes to get some detail shots of just me.  NOT complaining, because let’s be honest…who wants to see shots of just me??  haha 🙂Blog Vintage Leathe Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Florence Monroe Frye Lisa Booties-5 This could totally be seen as an out take, but I love it!  She was just running around me, laughing, and wanting to dance. 🙂Blog Vintage Leathe Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Florence Monroe Frye Lisa Booties-6And…the only images I got of Maya by herself not covered in water and mud…Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-11Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-10Here she is spotting all the mud puddles.  You can see the excitement in her fingers! 🙂Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-1Racing towards them tongue out and all.  hahahaBlog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-I actually attempted to plead with her NOT to jump just yet.  “Please, can we just run around and play a little bit before you jump??”Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-4Yeah, that didn’t happen… But if you can’t beat them, join them no?  Or at least capture the fun… Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-6Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-5So pleased with herself.  There really are few things she loves more than jumping in mud puddles!  And, who am I to deny that joy?  The boots were $1.50 from the thrift store, and I am totally putting the Activex Denim technology to the test in these DL1961 Jeans 😉 Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-7Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-8Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-9OMG, this look KILLS ME!!!  I am telling you.  Maya is just as happy as she looks on this blog, but the moments when she’s not-almost even cuter!!  ALMOST 🙂  At this point, she realized she was all wet and she’s like “Mommy, it’s time to go home!”  Oh…really??  So…maybe we should have run and played a little more before jumping in the puddles right away?  And for those of you that know me, you know that is EXACTLY what I said to her 🙂Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-12But then of course, I gave her a little hug and a kiss! 🙂Blog Levis Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Chloe Macpherson Baby Quiz Boots-13Love her…Blog 2 Vintage Leathe Jacket HM Sweater DL1961 Florence Monroe Frye Lisa Booties-24EOn me…

Jacket- Vintage (similar here, and less expensive here)
Sweater- H&M (old, similar here)
Belt- Forever 21 (similar here)
Jeans- DL1961 “Florence” in Monroe  (C/O)
Boots- Frye “Lisa Short Stitch” (eBay, sold out but similar here and here and less expensive here)
On Maya…
Jacket- Levis (thrifted, but similar here)
Sweater-H&M (similar here)
Shoes- Baby Quiz (thrifted, similar here)
Keeping it Real…
I’ll be honest.  As we drove away, I thought “This entire shoot is just going to be scrapped and will never see the light of day on the blog.  Yes, Maya is eating in half of them.  Yes, she jumped into mud puddles about 5 minutes into our outting soaking herself, and getting us both muddy.  But, that’s our real life.  That’s what really happens.  So, things may not have gone as I had envisioned them, but they rarely do haha.
And…while I’m “keeping it real”.  This is what really happens sometimes too.  I can’t figure out where I’m supposed to stand to be in focus (I put a flower down that we had long since trampled), and Maya has a snack in her hand, yet still wanted to be holding my hand… And there we go 🙂  Such is life.Blog outtake
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Leather Jacket + Sequins + Coated Denim….Holidays are coming!

I hope everyone had an amazing Thanksgiving surrounded by ones you love!  I’m listing some of the things I’m most thankful for in the “Keeping it Real” at the bottom 🙂

The holidays are coming, and that means parties!  Well, for some of us.  It used to mean a few parties for me, but now…not as much haha.  That said, there are still times when we do go out, and I want to make sure I’m ready!  So….I thought for the next month, I’d do a post a week that wasn’t really as much “mom friendly” as it was “get me out of the house and party” friendly 😉

I wish it meant a fun dress (I have a ridiculous amount of them waiting to be worn!), but I really just don’t feel comfortable in dresses.  I LOVE them, buy them, and then 30 minutes before we are about to leave…rip them off and change in a panic!!

For me, that means black or coated denim, something a little fun/sparkly on top, and a leather jacket.  Oh…and HEELS!!  Becuase…those really only come out for special occasions and they make me feel like I’m stepping it up (HA, literally and figuratively) 🙂Blog Doma Leather Jacket Velvet Sequin Top Paige Edgemont Coated Paul and Joe Booties-1I don’t know about you, but I’m thinking that if you are reading this blog that you are either my family (haha) or that you like fashion, food, or ridiculously cute little girls (ha!)  Anyway, for those of you that are fashion minded, you will appreciate this.  I coveted these jeans for soooooo long, as I talked about here and when I finally scored them from Nordstrom Racks “Clear the Rack” here,.  And yet…I’ve only worn them ONCE!  What the heck??!!!  They are comfy, repel toddler gook, I LOVE THEM, yet…I save them/never wear them?  I need to get over it!!  I really have been trying to work things into my wardrobe that I’ve been “saving” aka…most of my clothes, but this blog is actually making me stick to it a little more…little by little.  I still tend to wear the same jeans 3 days in a row when we are not taking pictues (for whatever reason)  In the beginning, I was all about taking pictures every day to show what a day in the REAL life of a mom was, but…A) who wants to see that??  and B) I just don’t have time for that!  So…now, it’s a mix of boring reality and fun 🙂  By the way…I’m TOTALLY open to suggestions of what you might want to see if anyone has any!!!Blog Doma Leather Jacket Velvet Sequin Top Paige Edgemont Coated Paul and Joe Booties-2All that said.  Leather + Fun Top + Coated Denim = My Happy Place/Comfort Zone Blog Doma Leather Jacket Velvet Sequin Top Paige Edgemont Coated Paul and Joe Booties-3And THIS…is our happy place 🙂Blog Doma Leather Jacket Velvet Sequin Top Paige Edgemont Coated Paul and Joe Booties-4 Blog Doma Leather Jacket Velvet Sequin Top Paige Edgemont Coated Paul and Joe Booties-5 Blog Doma Leather Jacket Velvet Sequin Top Paige Edgemont Coated Paul and Joe Booties-6Blog Amy Coe Hanna Andersson BW Tiered Dress Zulily Faux Leather Leggings DIY Glitter Shoes-1Um, yes.  She is the cutest thing in the world.  Just in case anyone was wondering! 🙂 Blog Amy Coe Hanna Andersson BW Tiered Dress Zulily Faux Leather Leggings DIY Glitter Shoes-2 Blog Amy Coe Hanna Andersson BW Tiered Dress Zulily Faux Leather Leggings DIY Glitter Shoes-3 Blog Amy Coe Hanna Andersson BW Tiered Dress Zulily Faux Leather Leggings DIY Glitter Shoes-4 Blog Amy Coe Hanna Andersson BW Tiered Dress Zulily Faux Leather Leggings DIY Glitter Shoes-5 Blog Amy Coe Hanna Andersson BW Tiered Dress Zulily Faux Leather Leggings DIY Glitter Shoes-6 Blog Amy Coe Hanna Andersson BW Tiered Dress Zulily Faux Leather Leggings DIY Glitter Shoes-7On me…

Jacket- Doma (old, similar here)
Top- Velvet “Vonnie Sequin Top”  (similar here)
Jeans- Paige Edgemont coated (Nordstrom Rack)
Boots- Paul & Joe (Old, similar here and less expensive option here)
On Maya…
Jacket- Amy Coe (thrifted, but similar here)
Dress- Hanna Andersson (thrifted, but similar here)
Leggings- Zulily
Shoes- (thrifted, and DIY glitter toe shown here)
Keeping it Real…

I hope everyone had an amazing Thanksgiving!!  Things have been a bit crazy in our life lately, so it was even more special and nice to just relax, overindulge, and be thankful.  It’s so easy to focus on the daily grind and get overwhelmed with what’s not going the way you want.  That’s the best thing about Thanksgiving.  Hopefully, you have the day off from work, are surrounded by loved ones, eat way more amazing food than you every should, and…reflect on what you are thankful for.

This is what I’m most thankful for…

1- Family– I am so incredibly blessed the have an amazing family.  They say you can’t choose your family, but if I had to pick mine out of a ginormous book, I’d choose mine in a heart beat!  Which…is kind of my 2, 3, and 4 🙂

2- The Huz- I not only married my best friend, but I married the yin to my yang.  We have enough in common to understand each other and have fun, but also have completely different strengths, that allow us to navigate through this crazy life in a way I never even dreamed was possible.

3- My Parents- Before the Huz, they were my best friends.  Still are… I’m so lucky that they now live only a few blocks away and that both Maya and I get to see them almost every day.

4- Our kids– Two teenage sons and a toddler… It can be tough at times, but we are so lucky to have 3 genuinely good, caring, NICE, kids that truly all love each other.  What more could you want?

4- Life– It can be crazy at times, but I am soooo lucky to be able to do something that I love to do while getting to spend the majority of my day with my favorite partner in crime (and play!).

(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Chunky Knits + Comfy Destroyed Boyfriend Jeans + Lace Up Boots

 The good news?  I think I found the perfect destroyed boyfriend jeans.  The bad news?  They don’t make them anymore. 😦

I scored these new on eBay for $27, originally $231(I sometimes wonder how the sellers get their stock, but then…I figure I don’t really care haha-whoops)

Most destroyed boyfriend jeans are 100% cotton (that fabric tends to fray the best)  The downside is that they either stretch out and give you saggy butt, or they don’t stretch at all-which isn’t all that comfy!  These are stretchy but don’t stretch out, aka what I totally look for in a jean!  I’m a little embarrassed about how many times I’ve worn these since I got them a few weeks ago… :}Blog Zara Lilac Chunky Knit Turtleneck Genetic Masen Ex Boyfriend Lace Up boots-1 Blog Zara Lilac Chunky Knit Turtleneck Genetic Masen Ex Boyfriend Lace Up boots-2 Blog Zara Lilac Chunky Knit Turtleneck Genetic Masen Ex Boyfriend Lace Up boots-3I made the mistake of giving her my phone in the car while I snapped a few pics of me.  She found her way to the Disney Collector and there was NO taking that phone out of her hands haha.  If you don’t know who she is (you’re lucky!)  If you have a toddler, my guess is that you do.  They all seem to find her somehow!!?? Blog Zara Lilac Chunky Knit Turtleneck Genetic Masen Ex Boyfriend Lace Up boots-4 Blog Zara Lilac Chunky Knit Turtleneck Genetic Masen Ex Boyfriend Lace Up boots-5  It kind of cracks me up to see her looking so serious 🙂Blog Ahoy Amigo Always Hungry Pullover Levis Zebra Converse-1 The only way to get the phone out of her hands was to go to the playground.  I took these after we got home.  She’s walking her yoyo 😉 Blog Ahoy Amigo Always Hungry Pullover Levis Zebra Converse-2 Blog Ahoy Amigo Always Hungry Pullover Levis Zebra Converse-3 Blog Ahoy Amigo Always Hungry Pullover Levis Zebra Converse-4 Blog Ahoy Amigo Always Hungry Pullover Levis Zebra Converse-5 Blog Ahoy Amigo Always Hungry Pullover Levis Zebra Converse-6On me…

Sweater- Zara (last year, similar here)
Jeans- Genetic Denim Masen Ex Boyfriend (ebay, sold out but I bet these are just as comfy!)
Boots- 20+ years old (similar here and less expensive here)
On Maya…
Jeans- Levi’s (thrifted, but similar here)
Shoes- Converse (thrifted, but similar here)
Keeping it Real…
I actually took these right after Halloween.  I was stock piling pics/posts on days that weren’t raining in anticipation of the inevitable monsoon season, then…we got super lucky with great weather for the last few weeks!  So, I’ve got extras thank goodness, because I’m so flipping overwhelmed outside of this blog I could cry (and admittedly have a few times…).  Again…this blog is the thing I look forward to working on, during breaks, when things are going to %&$#, so…thank you to all of you that are following along.  🙂
THIS is Maya finding a piece of candy on the sidewalk and balancing it on her head haha.Blog Outtake
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Kimonos + Black Ripped Skinnies (and a video!)

 I LOVE the look of kimonos!  They can be a little tricky to wear though.  At least for me.  I see them on other people, and pretty much love however they are worn.  But then I try it, and I end up taking them off haha.  LOVE this one from Free People.  Really, anything Free People makes, I love lately.

All that said.  I realized as I was going over these images that I looked totally pregnant in this outfit- I’m NOT!  I definitely learn things after posting outfits.  There’s only so much that you can see when you look in the mirror.  Especially when you take all of about 2 minutes to get dressed!  I thought all loose and flowey would be good on top with the skinny jeans on the bottom, but…I’m thinking a tighter shirt might have been a better idea.  Oh, well! 🙂  All that said, if I were pregnant, I would TOTALLY rock this outfit as well!  Although, I still might do a tighter shirt to showcase the bump 🙂Blog Free People Printed Duster Scarf Kimono J Brand Skinny Leg Shadow Destroyed SixtySeven Booties-1 Blog Free People Printed Duster Scarf Kimono J Brand Skinny Leg Shadow Destroyed SixtySeven Booties-2But ooooooh, that cascade of flowing fabric??  LOVE!! Blog Free People Printed Duster Scarf Kimono J Brand Skinny Leg Shadow Destroyed SixtySeven Booties-3This next one cracks me up haha.  Kind of an outtake, but too funny not to include!  Maya’s face, and the side karate kick-love it!  Again…NOT PREGNANT!! :{Blog Free People Printed Duster Scarf Kimono J Brand Skinny Leg Shadow Destroyed SixtySeven Booties-4I’ve been wanting to do a video of how I take our shots with a self timer and tripod.  I’ve done a post about it, but I really want to do one that goes over the entire process, because I really want to show Maya’s role in it (here’s a video of Maya doing it all by herself 🙂), and how much fun she has.  But haven’t had the time yet.  I did manage to capture this video of me doing the thing Maya loves the most.  Flying in the air-aka working out with your toddler :).  I am SO glad I finally did it-LOVE IT!  I may or may not have already watched this about 827 times 😉

 And here’s the image I took in the video!  Honestly, all the stars aligned in that I got this shot the one time I shot the video.  I would have just posted another one that wasn’t videoed had I not hahahaha (just keeping it real ;))Blog Free People Printed Duster Scarf Kimono J Brand Skinny Leg Shadow Destroyed SixtySeven Booties-5sqThe dress Maya is wearing is SO ADORABLE!!  The only problem is that it’s 100% silk (aka is a wrinkle nightmare) and it’s short sleeve.  But, she’s been asking to wear it every since I bought it (for $1.50!!!!), and I kept putting her off.  Finally, I gave in and just layered her up.  🙂  It cracks me up how opinionated she already is (insert snicker from my dad!!)  She is her mother’s daughter 🙂

Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-1 Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-2 Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-3 Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-4 Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-5 Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-6 Lion in hand… She has to be holding a toy at all times 🙂Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-7Are you kidding me with that look???  🙂Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-8And then THIS?  I just wanted to scoop her up and smother her with kisses!! Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-9 Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-10 Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-11 Blog Old Navy Leopard Coat Crew Cuts Silk Dress Kids Feet Brown Boots-12On me…

Kimono- Free People “Printed Duster Scarf” (Nordstrom Rack, can still buy it here)
Top- Mod’Land Paris (thrifted, similar here)
Jeans- J Brand Skinny Leg Shadow Destroyed (ebay, not destroyed here and less expensive here)
Boots- SixtySeven “Blake” Bootie (Nordstom Rack, sold out, loving these)
On Maya…
Jacket- Old Navy (thrifted, but similar here)
Dress- CrewCuts (thrifted, but similar drop waist style here)
Leggings- Gap (thrifted, but similar here)
Boots- Kids Feet (Consignment Store credit used, similar here)
Keeping it Real…
Here’s a few outtakes I took before I had the thought to video it.  What’s really funny is that I’ve always performed better under pressure-HA!  I had to totally laugh when I saw this next on the back of the camera.  Where’s Maya??!  hahaha  And then…I flipped the camera to portrait vs landscape ;).Blog OuttakeAnd one that I caught on the way down vs up…Blog Outtake 2
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Vintage Fishermans Sweater + Plaid + Ripped Denim + Oxfords

 It is abnormally sunny here lately in Seattle , but COLD.  So…layers are a must.  You are freezing for a bit, then hot as you move around in the sun.  I got this amazing vintage wool sweater for $2.50, and I LOVE it!!  The plaid shirt was $2!  Both scored recently.Blog Vintage Fishermans Sweater Plaid Top J Brand Destroyed Skinny Miss Sixty Oxfords-1I’ve had these jeans for a while and they were ridiculously long.  Like a 35 inch inseam.  I’m 5 8″, but my legs are the size of a person who’s 5 5″.  Yes, I have an abnormally long torso, which was great for a swim team and pregnancy, but NOT pants.  Anywho, I finally took the plunge and just chopped them off.  LOVE them now!! Blog Vintage Fishermans Sweater Plaid Top J Brand Destroyed Skinny Miss Sixty Oxfords-2 Blog Vintage Fishermans Sweater Plaid Top J Brand Destroyed Skinny Miss Sixty Oxfords-3 Blog Vintage Fishermans Sweater Plaid Top J Brand Destroyed Skinny Miss Sixty Oxfords-4 Blog Vintage Fishermans Sweater Plaid Top J Brand Destroyed Skinny Miss Sixty Oxfords-5“Mommy, I want to go upside down like a bat!” Blog Vintage Fishermans Sweater Plaid Top J Brand Destroyed Skinny Miss Sixty Oxfords-6There is just something about this next image.  LOVE IT!  And then I panicked “DON’T GO IN THE WATER!!!”  The tide was super high!  We usually go down this ramp and play on the beach.  I had promised her we were going to play on the beach… :{  Sadly…we played on the ramp haha.Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-1And these faux Dr. Martens I scored of Zulily for $9.99??  She’s gotten compliments on them every time she’s worn them (total of 3 times since I got them in the mail) haha. Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-2And then the fun started.  She threw off her sweater and coat and started jumping and dancing out of nowhere.  It’s not possible to love this little nugget more than I do…Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-3 Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-4 Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-5The little finger point??!!!  I can’t make this stuff up… Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-6I may have also promised her bubbles.  This batch I got are total duds!!  Which is kind of ok, since she dumps out all the bubbles in about 2.3 seconds regardless if they work or not… Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-7 Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-9 Blog Gap Kids Jacket Old Navy Cardigan Hanna Andersson Blue Tiered Dress Zulily Link Alyson Boots-10On me…

Sweater- Vintage (similar here)
Top- Mossimo (thrifted
Jeans- J Brand (thrifted, sold out, but similar here)
Shoes- Miss Sixty “Marlene” oxford (sold out, but you can still find them on eBay!)  Similar here
On Maya…
Jacket- Gap (thrifted, but similar here)
Sweater- Old Navy (thrifted, but similar here)
Dress- Hanna Andersson (thrifted, but similar here)
Leggings- Gap (thrifted, but similar here)
Boots- Zulily (search Link Boots)
Keeping it Real…
Aaaaaand, we have an runner!!  It’s funny.  I always know with Maya and on shoots when kids are all done.  They are all fun and games until….they’re not 😉  And that is when you call it a day 🙂Blog Outtake
(all pictures taken with a self timer and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren