Category Archives: Misc Maya

Oversized Open Back Sweater + Ripped Skinnies + Leather Slip On Tennis Shoes

I often get questions about staying fashionable while being a mom.  The truth is…there is a level of comfort that is needed when you are chasing your child around, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be fashionable.  It doesn’t mean you have to say good bye to your former pre-kid style…

For me, I still wear a lot of the same things…with a few tweaks.

Here’s one of my go to looks.

Chunky knit + Ripped super stretchy (A MUST!!!) skinny jeans + Comfy Cool Tennis Shoe.
My favorite part of this sweater is the back!!  I’ve talked A LOT about my love of an interesting back.  You can look nice and conservative from the front, but give a hint of attitude when you turn around!

Later this week, I’ll show how I took this outfit from day to night.

Hint-I lost the tank top 🙂 Thank goodness for a zoom lens!  I kid you not.  She ran REALLY far from me!  How many moms can relate?  Oh…all of you?? 🙂 Clearly she thought it was hilarious…LOVE!!
LOVE all these next ones.  I honestly could have posted at least 5 more, but had to reign myself in at some point!
I’ll be SO sad when I can’t pick her up anymore!!!  The laughs right in my face…the tight cuddles…and even her licks (kisses).  😉  On me…

Sweater- One Teaspoon (eBay $5!, similar here and here)
Bra- H&M (old, similar here)
Top- Bordeaux (old, similar here)
On Maya…
Top- Kate Quinn Organic (thrifted, but cute print here)
Keeping it Real…
Hahaha.  I swear the time she is most in the mood to “pose” is when I’m trying to set up the tripod and the focusing stand.  I don’t want her in the shot, which of course means she WANTS to be in it 😉
Oh, and it should be noted that this is a very popular biking path.  SO…we were constantly jumping out of the way!
These leaves though!!!!  SO worth it!
Every once in a while she makes a very agressive dive/fall.  At almost 50lbs, that isn’t insignificant!!  My face here…hahaha. And….Maya got control of the remote again ha! What a lot of our shots look like…
(all pictures taken with a shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Military Utility Jackets + Stripes + Birkenstocks || Sunset on the beach…

Here’s another shoot from over THREE months ago.  We had happened to have a cooler evening in the beginning of July, and the Huz had to go out of town.

I decided to let Maya stay up a little past her bedtime, and we went to play on a beach and catch the gorgeous sunset.

SO glad I did!  We had the best time, and the sunset was amazing!!

We are supposed to have evenings in the mid 60’s this weekend, but I’ll be shooting other families at sunset time…

She almost gave me a heart attack running around and jumping from log to log! That sky though… Looooooooove this next one!! On me…

Jacket- Gap (thrifted for $7.50, similar here)
Top- Olivia Sky (Nordstrom Rack)
Jeans- Hudson “Collin Skinny Jeans” (thrifted for $6!)
Shoes- Birkenstock “Granada” (hand me down from my mom!)
On Maya…
Sweatshirt- Petit Bateau (thrifted, but similar here)
Top- Crewcuts (thrifted, but similar here)
Jeans- Hudson (Nordstrom Rack, similar here )
Shoes- Saltwater Sandals (thrifted)
Keeping it Real…
So….we didn’t exactly mean to catch the sunset.  We went down earlier at first, but as soon as we parked I realized I hadn’t put a card in my camera!!  I normally keep two cards in in my camera (after having one corrupt a while back!), but long story…took them both out-UGH!  I let Maya run around for a little bit, but then we ran back home (about 10 minutes away)  It was one of those days…
BUT…it all worked out for the best in the end, because it was a GORGEOUS night!
Maya’s face pretty much summed up my thoughts earlier though…haha.
(all pictures taken with a self timer/shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Denim Jacket + Striped Top + Harem Pants! HELLOOOOO 90’s!!

Among the MANY things I said I’d never wear… 🙈

Harem Pants!

BUT, my first concert was MC Hammer, and he made them COOL for a hot minute in the late 80’s/early 90’s!

    So…I guess it’s fate that I love them now! 😂😍

I mean….SO COMFY!!

And I pretend that they are flattering on days when skinny “ANYTHING” is not going to cut it… 😩🍷🐷 Sooooo, I know I’m sounding like a broken record, but I took these images TWO months ago haha.  We happened to have a cooler evening, so we layered up a bit.  Because of that I put it on the back burner for when temps did start to get cooler for real!

Oh, in reality, this whole blog has been put on the back burner.  I’m just trying to stay sane.  Right now that means spending time with the family, tackling my client work first, and if we have a few moments left over…taking pics for this blog.

I’ve got about 10+ posts that we’ve taken pics of, but no time to actually work on the blog posts!! 😦

I’m kind of getting a routine down that lets me have more time to work while Maya is in school, so hopefully I’ll catch up on everything soon!  Famous last words..

Those two dots in the distance are my dad and Maya 🙂 Our faces hahaha! She’s in heaven when he does this.  I feel like I’m going to vomit from dizziness just watching!

 

On me…

Jean Jacket- 3×1 thrifted for $10!!! (similar here retails for $300!!)
Top- Clu (eBay, similar here)
Pants- Theory (eBay, similar here and here)
Boots- Birkenstock “Granada” (hand me down from my mom-SCORE!)
On Maya…
Jacket- Gapkids (thrifted, but similar here)
Dress- GapKids (thrifted, but similar here)
Sandals- (thrifted)
Keeping it Real…
Our faces in these…
(all pictures taken with a self timer/shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Distressed Overalls + Bodysuit + Lace Up Booties

 I’m sure that there is an age when it’s really not appropriate to wear overalls…

But I’m thinking/convincing myself that that age is a ways off… 😉 . Because, I love them!  I’ve had a love for them since the 2nd grade when Dexys Midnight Runners came out with “Come on Eileen” . And if you are too young to remember that song, then listen, and dance along!  All that to say… My love of overalls runs deep. 🙂

So, oddly enough this looks like a foggy day in Seattle.

It wasn’t.  It was during the wildfires that happened back in early September.  I remember thinking that it was overcast, so it was ok to wear overalls.  At the end of this, I was a hot sweaty MESS!

BUT…let’s just pretend it was a cool foggy October day… 🙂

She says all the time….

“Mom…no pictures!!”

But you know what… I’ll keep doing them.  Because once we are actually THERE…

This is what I get.  And as much as I love looking back at these over and over…

I have to think that she will too. Pretty sure she has the best laugh EVER! Oh, and this outfit?  Totally wish I could pull it off!!

Faux leather shorts…might be a thing of my past.

BUT NOT OVERALLS!!

haha.One of the things I’ve always loved capturing…

Her running towards me!!

LOVE!!!! When she was younger, it always ended in her knocking me over with a hug.  Now…she just runs on past…haha. SUPER MAYA!!!

On me…

Bodysuit- H&M (similar here)
Booties- Boden (thrifted, similar here and obsessing over these! )
On Maya…
Jean Shirt- Hanna Andersson  (thrifted)
Top- Tucker and Tate (Nordstrom Rack)
Faux Leather Shorts- GapKids  (thrifted, similar here)
Ballet Flats- Clarks (thrifted, similar here)
Keeping it Real…
UGH!!!  The thing about taking our pictures with a tripod and shutter release is that we take a bunch of shots before I even go back to look and make sure that I actually got the focus right and….we didn’t dance right out of the shot.  That is a very common thing.  Oddly, the thing I most complain about when I ask others to take out pic haha.
These next ones.  TOTALLY out of focus, and…while fun, not at all in the frame!  BUT…I love them!!!  In all their blurriness!!
Oh, and I kid you not.  I DID a LOT of pics in this non focused shot!!
Thankfully, I changed it up and refocused.  CORRECTLY!
(all pictures taken with a self timer/shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Bodysuits + High Waisted Chambray Pants + Leather Jacket + Booties

I posted a look last week that was beyond comfy, yet still for the warmer temps.

Seattle has since gotten a lot colder, but it’s hopefully going to be back in the 60’s this next week a few times!

The easiest way I know to transition your summer favs into fall is by adding a fun jacket (my favs are denim and leathe!) and booties!

So…I did just that! And meanwhile…there’s Maya art directing haha. 😉

On me…

Leather Jacket- Plein Sud (eBay, similar here), faux leather option here)
Bodysuit- Velvet Torch
Booties- Sam Edelman “Posey Chain Trim Bootie” (eBay, fun ones here & here)
On Maya…
Dress- Hanna Andersson (love this for fall)
Leggings-Hanna Andersson (thrifted, similar here)
Clogs- Hanna Andersson ( similar here)
(all pictures taken with a shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

All Black + Statement Clog! (Bodysuit + High Waisted Crop Pants + Strappy Clogs)

I recently posted about Maya turning SIX!  But…I felt like the post should be mostly about HER-duh!!  But…as she was off petting random dogs that came by, I had to opportunity to take pics of just me-ha!

As per usual, I wasn’t really prepared to take pics on this day.  This was on her actual birthday, and she had school.  I swear it’s one thing after another (such is life!!).  But after getting some work done while she was in school, my main thought was getting her last minute gifts/balloons!

Soooo, I put on the outfit that was sitting on my dresser from a wedding I’d recently shot-I’d washed the bodysuit, I promise!!.  BUT…it was in a mound of clean laundry on my dresser too.

  Please tell me I’m not the only one that has a STACK of clothing on their dresser.  Clothes recently worn, but not really dirty.  Clothes out of the dryer that you don’t have time to fold and put away…for like 3 weeks straight.  Ok, 4.

This was SO comfy (as I need to be when shooting a wedding), but I feel like all black can crossover to just about any situation.  It can be casual, it can be dressy, it is always flattering.  AKA…it’s always a WIN!

I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve worn these clogs!  I’m so sad to be saying good bye to them until next summer! And…had to get shots of both of our shoes, because our shoe shots are some of my favs! Seriously…dying.

On me…

Bodysuit- H&M (similar here)
Pants- Club Monaco (really old, similar here and less expensive here)
Clogs- Sven “Ankle Wrap Strap”C/O
On Maya…
Jacket- Zara Kids (thrifted, but similar here)
Dress- GapKids (thrifted)
Belt- Old
Leggings- GapKids (thrifted)
Clogs- Sven  Sling Strap Children’s Clog C/O
Keeping it Real…
I had given Maya the remote to take my picture, and she took like 35 in a row and wouldn’t stop haha.  This would be me running to stop her.
And…then I gave her the remote to take pics of us together.  I feel like she has way more fun when she has control of things at times.  But again…a kazillion shoe shots later… 🙂
(all pictures taken with a shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Maya is SIX!!

 Maya recently turned SIX on October 4th!!

I’m kind of in denial about it…

What I’m NOT in denial about is the fact that I am constantly in awe of the little person she is becoming, and I am BEYOND proud that she is not only my flesh and blood, but SO thankful that I get to hang out with her on the daily, and that she choses to hang out with ME!!

So, Maya, just know… You are beyond loved.

And this year…

You still ABSOLUTELY know what you want and cannot be swayed.  A common comment from teachers, yet they always say it with a smile on their face vs a look of concern. 🙂

You LOVE to sing.  Anytime.  Anywhere.  I finally put you in two separate weeklong singing/performance camps this summer, and low and behold you had a solo!!  Not once but twice!!  Yet, you kept it a SECRET, so we were totally surprised come performance time at the end of the camp!!  Good thing your mama always has her camera and phone ready!!

You are still hands down one of the funniest human beings I know.  Always ready with a joke, and an attempt to make people laugh!  The fact that YOU laugh hysterically is your fail safe! 😉

You LOVE dogs.  Anywhere we go, you want to stop and ask “Can I pet your dog?!!”  You are SO good with them.  You know to hold out your hand for them to sniff, and then your second question always is “Do you have any treats for them?!”  Even without treats, all dogs love you.  I constantly hear “Oh, they usually don’t like kids!”  But they always love you.  You’ve even talked about wanting to start a dog walking business when you get older!

Tonight (as luck might have it, to be fresh in my mind!!) as I was making dinner with you standing next to me on your stool, you said.

“We are a lucky family.”  I agreed, but then asked what you meant by that, and you said.

“Well, we have healthy food that tastes good (I was making a salad, which you love).  And we have a really nice home.  And, we’re just lucky!”

The fact that you just pop those things out randomly?  I wish I wrote more of those things down!!  But…I couldn’t agree with you more, Peanut!  And I couldn’t be luckier to have YOU as a daughter!!!

LOVE YOU!!!

I really wanted to surprise Maya with balloons when she got out of school, and a few other little gifts from the dollar store to add to the few things we had gotten her.

As an fyi, if you have a dollar store near you-most cities do (they have different names)!!  They have mylar balloons for $1!  Even ones with sayings!  I was SHOCKED once when I went to get a last minute gift/balloon at just HOW EXPENSIVE balloons can be, so I vowed to go to the dollar store after that!  Oh, and one of her favorite gifts?  A plastic microphone that really echo’s her voice when she sings!!!  For those in the Seattle area…yay Dollar Tree!!

All that said…

Things have been a little rough this past month, with Maya starting kindergarten, and my workload starting to increase.  She’s not been her usual happy go lucky self.  Especially at school and with the new kids she’s met.  And to say that I’ve been an overthinking/overstressing hot mess about that is a pretty big understatement…

Thankfully, I’ve had a few really good talks with her teacher (who I love!), and what I’ve discovered is that I need to just step back and let Maya be Maya.  She truly has a better head on her shoulders than I do, and the way she looks at life, is WAY beyond her years.  I literally learn from HER every single day.

Right after this next image, she saw a woman sitting on a bench by herself.  Granted she had headphones on and probably just wanted to chill.

Maya said… “Can I go say ‘hi’ to her?   She looks like she’s kind of left out…”

Oddly enough, I actually took a video of it, NOT knowing that was what she was going to do.  I mainly had wanted to get a video of her running with the balloons.  But THAT is her.  SO freaking kind and sweet.
Ok, note to self.  Balloons are NOT the best prop!  They always seem like a good idea, but getting them in the frame and YOU?  Not so much. Unless they randomly get blown towards you.  Thank you wind! Yeah…balloons, cropped out, because…I’d rather have US! Then…as we were leaving a woman came by with her dog (immediate magnet for Maya!) and a camera.  She said she was there to practice taking pictures of her dog, and asked what we were doing.  We told her we were taking pics for Maya’s birthday.

Then Maya asked if she wanted to take pictures of her!  hahaha.  Of course she won’t “pose” for me, but a stranger?  She was ON!

I was DYING!  Are you kidding me??! These next two….LOVE!

On me…

Bodysuit- H&M (similar here)
Pants- Club Monaco (really old, similar here and less expensive here)
Clogs- Sven “Ankle Wrap Strap”C/O
On Maya…
Jacket- Zara Kids (thrifted, but similar here)
Dress- GapKids (thrifted)
Belt- Old
Leggings- GapKids (thrifted)
Clogs- Sven  Sling Strap Children’s Clog C/O
Keeping it Real…
She really wanted me to spin her, but it’s kiiiiiind of hard to do with balloons ha!
Haha.  Her face!  But honestly, I’m so impressed with her balance!  In clogs, no less!!
(all pictures taken with a self timer/shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Bodysuits + High Waisted Chambray Pants + Clogs = Jammies in public!

 I’m all about outfits that make you feel like you’re in your jammies, yet totally fake people out that you have your sh*t together! 🤣

This is one of those outfits! 💃🏼🙌🏻🤗

On me…

Bodysuit- Velvet Torch
Clogs- Swedish Hasbeens “Fideli” (eBay, sold out, similar here)
On Maya…
Dress- Hanna Andersson (love this for fall)
Leggings-Hanna Andersson (thrifted, similar here)
Clogs- Hanna Andersson ( similar here)
Keeping it Real…
A lot of the times, I tell Maya she can pick what we do.
Usually, she wants me to copy her.
Usually, we do something weird haha. 😉
I just wanted to post this, because it looks like I actually have boobies here!
I don’t… 🙂
Must remember what bra I was wearing haha.
(all pictures taken with a shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

White Ruffled Top + Ripped Skinnies + Red Clogs!

 I’ve said it once, and I’ll say it again…a statement red shoe will ALWAYS make an outfit!

When it’s a clog?!  I’m telling you…I get questioned about these clogs more than any other shoe!  Ok, honestly…people barely ask me about anything, so these are a total statement shoe/clog!

Oh, and they are soooo comfy!  I’ve raved about them in many a post, so feel free to go back and look at how versatile they are!

The weather here in Seattle has been all over the board lately.  It was in the mid 80’s and then the mid 50’s.  All within a few days.  I had to dig out a few of Maya’s summer dresses that I had packed away!

It should be noted that I took these pictures over a month ago, BUT…I could have taken them this last week haha.
Her face when I said let’s dance together!!
Oh, and then she said

“Let’s have a dance off!!” I’m going to call it a tie!

Unless there are some of you that say I look like “Elaine” (for anyone that gets that reference)

(for anyone that doesn’t get that reference-google Seinfeld Elaine Dance!)

I’m telling you it was the camera!  hahaha.  That’s my story, and I’m sticking to it! But these next ones… LOVE! There’s something about clogs on her feet!  She just wants to dance!  I used to be worried about her twisting her ankle, but nope!  She just keeps dancing away! That tongue and pointed fingers!! Oh, and my dad happened upon us once again on his evening walk.

LOVE this one!! And of course she talked him into an airpalne!

I won’t even do that anymore, so I’m thinking about calling an end to these too.  So glad I’ve documented them thus far tho!

On me…

Top- Clu (eBay, similar here)
On Maya…
Top- Mini Boden (thrifted, )
Jeans- Hudson  (thrifted, but similar here)
Clogs (Old but SO cute for fall here)
Keeping it Real…
Yeah….this is Maya 🙂
I can’t even begin with this…hahaha.  Maya’s hair!  Seriously…how did I fix that??!
My face.
Oh, and my dad that happened upon us on his walk…which we love!  Clearly not shown here, but above!!
(all pictures taken with a shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren

Enjoying those last summer nights…

 To be honest, I took these images 3 weeks ago when it was still nice and sunny here in Seattle!

I’ve been super busy with work, and with Maya’s extracurricular activities.  Plus, my Instagram account has been somewhat blocked since the beginning of September, so I just decided F*ck it, and took a little break.

I have no idea if or when my IG account will go back to normal, but I’ll keep plugging along.  If you aren’t already, feel free to follow us there too.  Right now only active followers see my posts, and none of my hashtags work, which is kind of a bummer.

BUT….c’est la vie!  There are way more important things.  It’s actually been a nice taking a break from Instagram.  I didn’t realize how much time I spent on there, and now that I don’t have any time to spare…it’s eye opening how alluring it is.

There’s so much research going around about the adverse effects that social media has on kids these days, but let’s be honest.  It’s us adults too!

Anywho….here are some shots we too, that are actually some of my favorites.  We took them around our “nightly walk” route, so it’s kind of special to us, and I’m so sad to see these summer nights going away… And…see that remote in Maya’s hand?  Yup, I gave it to her and SHE took these pics! 🙂 And then we switched back to the remote timer… LOVE these next two!! I think she was trying to catch a bug haha. Striking a pose…as per usual. She seriously KILLS ME!! Aren’t these the COOLEST FLOWERS?!!  I found out that they are called the Passion Flower.  I sooooo want to grow some, but I’d most likely kill them. 😦 The woman who owns the house happened to come by, and she said Maya could have one! I can’t even…

On me…

Top/Dress/Swimsuit Cover Up haha- Mademoiselle Hortense Saint Barts (thrifted)
Leggings- Forever 21
On Maya…
Dress- Crewcuts by J Crew (thrifted)
Leggings Tucker and Tate- (thrifted,)
Sandals- Saltwater “Sun San” (thrifted)
Keeping it Real…
 The remote has been spotty lately, so I had to manually hit it a few times.  Ironically, I left it at a park a week later, so…
I’m getting a different one!
(all pictures taken with a shutter release and tripod, except ones of Maya :))

dit-elle-Lauren